I Am Not Responsible for Others’ Creations


Did you know that too many of us walk through life blaming ourselves for the creations of others? What others create has nothing to do with you. What YOU create has everything to do with you and how you think. What others create has only to do with them and what they deliberately create.

I have coached thousands of people who want to better their lives and I can tell you with the utmost certainty – there are too many of us carrying burdens that do not belong to us.

While you can carry so many different things for someone else, what you CANNOT carry for another person is their thoughts. What they think about, they bring about. What you think about, you bring about.

If you are in a relationship with someone who shoots their mouth off a lot and has a reputation for being somewhat difficult, you may think that their behaviors hurts you. Their behavior can only hurt you if you allow it to, but if it does affect you negatively, it is only your image that is tarnished because of your association with them. As long as you remember that they are an individual, they are the one who is to be held responsible for their actions (creations) – not you. But if you allow their actions to create YOUR image, then YOU are responsible for that.

“Sorry – that’s not mine.”

You do not deserve to suffer or bear any brunt because of the actions of someone else. What you can repeat in your head is, “Sorry, that’s not mine.” If others come to you, complaining of that person’s actions, simply remind yourself that their actions are theirs and remind the person complaining to you of such. Ask them how they believe situations should be resolved and then consider your part in fixing things. If you really have no real part in a situation’s fix, stay out of it and continue to disown the creation of someone else. Focus on YOU and what YOU are creating!

We get more of what we focus on. If you are focusing on the negative, you are going to have to deal with more negativity in your life. If you turn a blind eye, choose not to see the potentially negative situation and focus your attention to reiterating the good in your life, right now, you will dodge any and all bullets of negativity that may fly through the air in your direction.

If you are a parent and you reared your children to become wonderful, independent adults – allow them to be those wonderful, independent adults. If they are financially unstable, help them figure out how to gain financial stability – don’t just keep funding their lives. They might as well be minors again! You spend your whole live teaching your children how to live and when they come of age, you need to let them. Their problems or issues are theirs. If they end up needing parental intervention, provide them with your wisdom and direction and see what they can create.

If you are currently frustrated with your life, you have some thinking to do. You deserve to be living ULTIMATELY and your life circumstances are showing you through physical things the thoughts that you have been consistently thinking. Change your thinking; change your life. I promise.

Remember: You have the power to create YOUR Ultimate Life!

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Dr. Johnny Bergstrom, Msc.D., AMDA, is a Doctor of Metaphysical Science and an accomplished Metaphysician, Speaker, Author, Law of Attraction Expert and Health & Wellness Coach. He has the “gift of ignition” – an innate ability to spark the internal fires and personal passions in just about every person he works with. Whether it is through a motivational speech, corporate pep talk, or the keynote at your next corporate function – Dr. Bergstrom is just the spark you need to ignite a raging fire throughout your organization! TeamJohnny, Inc. is based in North Palm Beach, Florida. He can be reached by emailing Johnny@goteamjohnny.com, or through his website, www.goteamjohnny.com

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